Also be positive to always have a positive mentality. Of course women especially at places like bars just want to have fun. You can appeal to women effortlessly by having a happy and fun demeanor.

To be very relaxed means forgetting about anything that will make you nervous. This will really help your cost because women just love being around a guy that does not get nervous around them. There is a book called guy gets girl that will help you with some great advice. A major thing to always have is being relaxed no matter how many girls you are around.

Confidence may be the number one trait but it is nothing without being non-strict and convinced.